SWAYMVAR

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Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you want to know about SWAYMVAR — how it works, what we do, and what we promise.

Getting Started
What is SWAYMVAR?+
SWAYMVAR is India's first invite-only matrimonial platform built specifically for women working in the public sector — banks, insurance companies, financial regulators, oil PSUs, aviation, and railways. Every profile is peer verified by a colleague from the same organisation. The woman creates her own profile, on her own terms. No family submissions. No caste filters. No religion filters.
Who can join SWAYMVAR?+
Any employee — woman or man — working in an Indian public sector organisation on our active list. This includes RBI, SEBI, NABARD, PFRDA, IRDAI, all PSU banks, LIC and public insurance companies, AAI, Air India, Indian Railways, and Oil PSUs like IOCL, BPCL, ONGC, NTPC, Coal India and others. Every grade from clerk to director is welcome. All religions. No minimum rank requirement.
Is it really free?+
The first 100 founding members get lifetime access at no charge. SWAYMVAR may introduce a subscription plan after the founding batch is full. Founding members will never be charged retroactively. We will give at least 30 days notice before any pricing changes.
How do I apply to join?+
Fill the waitlist form on our homepage with your name, official email, organisation, designation, and posting city. Our Concierge team reviews every application personally within 48 hours. If approved, you receive a unique invitation code at your official email. Use that code to create your profile.
Verification
What does peer verification mean?+
When you apply, our Concierge team contacts a trusted colleague from your organisation to confirm one simple thing: "Does this person work here in the stated role?" The verifier's identity is never disclosed to you and your details are never shared with the verifier beyond what is necessary. This is not a LinkedIn check or an algorithm — it is a real person from your workplace confirming your professional standing.
How long does verification take?+
We review every application within 48 hours. Peer verification happens during the invite approval process — you do not need to do any separate verification step. Once approved, your unique invitation code is emailed to you and you can create your profile immediately.
What documents are required?+
Your official email address is the primary verification method. In some cases we may ask for your employee ID or appointment letter for additional confirmation. Any documents shared are used only for verification and deleted from our systems once confirmed. They are never shared with other members.
Privacy & Safety
Who can see my profile?+
Only verified SWAYMVAR members can browse profiles. Your photos are blurred by default and only visible after mutual interest is confirmed. You can choose to keep your photo permanently blurred if you prefer. Your contact details — email, phone, workplace address — are never shown to any member at any time.
Can I hide my profile from colleagues?+
Currently all verified members can see all profiles. If you are concerned about a specific colleague seeing your profile, write to concierge@swaymvar.in and we will handle it personally. This is a human concierge service — not an algorithm.
Is my data safe? Do you sell it?+
We never sell your data. We never share it with advertisers or third parties. Your data is stored on encrypted servers and used only to run the platform. You can request complete deletion of all your data at any time by writing to concierge@swaymvar.in. We comply with India's DPDP Act 2023.
Can I delete my profile?+
Yes. Go to My Profile → Privacy tab → Delete My Profile. All your data is permanently deleted within 72 hours. Alternatively write to concierge@swaymvar.in with subject "Data Deletion Request".
Matches & Introductions
How does expressing interest work?+
On any profile you can tap "Express Interest". The other person never knows unless they also express interest in you. When someone expresses interest in you, you receive a one-time notification. You can then choose to respond or ignore — the other person never knows either way until you explicitly reciprocate. No cold messages. No unsolicited contact. You are always in control.
Can members message each other directly?+
No. SWAYMVAR does not have a direct messaging system. This is intentional. Direct messaging on matrimonial platforms leads to spam, harassment, and unsolicited contact — exactly what women in professional roles want to avoid. Introductions only happen when both parties have independently expressed interest. Your messages and interests are private.
How are matches suggested?+
We do not use a secret algorithm. Profiles in the Discover feed are shown based on your organisation, posting city, and relocation openness. You browse profiles and express interest in whoever appeals to you. We believe you are better placed to decide who is right for you — not an algorithm.
Is there a filter for religion or caste?+
No. SWAYMVAR has absolutely no religion filter, caste filter, community filter, or regional filter. We never collect caste information. Religion is an optional field and is never used for filtering or sorting. SWAYMVAR is for every accomplished public sector professional — Hindu, Muslim, Christian, Sikh, Jain, Buddhist, or any other faith.
Transfer Compatibility
What is Transfer Fit?+
Transfer Fit is our way of showing career compatibility honestly. Every profile shows the member's current posting city and relocation openness. We also provide a guide explaining transfer patterns for each organisation — frequency, cities covered, and spouse posting policies — so members can have informed conversations before proceeding.
My organisation is not on the list. Can I still join?+
Write to concierge@swaymvar.in with your organisation name. We review new organisations regularly. IAS, IPS, IFS and defence are coming soon — we are building the verification infrastructure for those cadres.
Concierge Team
What does the Concierge team do?+
The Concierge team reviews every waitlist application personally, coordinates peer verification, approves profiles, and responds to any member queries. When both members express mutual interest, both receive a notification to proceed. We are a small team. Every interaction is personal. We are not a chatbot.
How do I contact the Concierge team?+
Email us at concierge@swaymvar.in. We respond within 48 hours on working days. For urgent matters related to privacy or profile safety, mark your subject line "URGENT".

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Still have a question?

Write to our Concierge team. Real people. Real answers. Within 48 hours.

concierge@swaymvar.in